Monday, August 11, 2008

Put Your Behind in Your Past

I like what Miguel de Cervantes, the author of Don Quixote, said, "Love not what you are, but what you may become." There is hope that I can always change for the better. I can become more self confident, more in charge of my life, healthier, happier -- you get the idea. And there is hope that I can change a situation -- like finding a new career or going after a new life-style.

If you're like me, making any big changes can be scary. We will have to COMMIT. And we may have to take a risk.

Let me illustrate what I mean:

Consider a performer on a trapeze. She swings back and forth. And then she encounters another trapeze bar. It is swinging toward her and it is empty. Now she has a decision to make. She may continue to hang onto her present bar, or let go and grasp the new one. But she can't do both! She can't hang onto the old and grasp the new with her other hand. She HAS to decide which she wants.

If she chooses to let go of the past and grasp the future, she finds herself suspended for a moment in mid-air. Scary! It's too late to go back and she has not yet latched onto the other bar. She is vulnerable and at risk. But she has decided to take that risk in order to move forward.

Life is like that. Sometimes you have let go of something if you want to latch onto something else. Maybe you will need to let go of an old job in order to take a new one. Or you may have to let go of an old relationship before fitting a new one into your life. You have to let go of other priorities on your time or money before grasping that new opportunity.

And for a while you may feel suspended in mid-air. You've committed to something new and let go of the past, but you have not yet grasped what is ahead. You feel vulnerable and you may be frightened. But you know that the only way you can reach the new "bar" is to let go of the old one.

But like Pumba (from "The Lion King") says, "Ya gotta put your behind in your past." Then you're ready for whatever comes next.

-- Steve Goodier

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Anonymous said...

What great perspective you have. Thanks for making me think. Have a fabulous day!

Anonymous said...

Hi from New Zealand! This message is exactly what I needed to hear today. I have taken on a new job and been feeling really wobbly about it (read terrified!). It's such a good opportunity but way out of my comfort zone. Thanks heaps Steve for the words of encouragement and inspiration.

angelbite said...

Salutations Steve,

I have to say that I absolutely love your Life Support Systems that you send out, each one speaks to me, each one has such deep meaning, it is very inspiring.

I post your work in 3 groups that I own and 1 that I moderate, I always put that it is from Steve Goodier, and I am adding your site to my links section.

Thank you for some outstanding work!

Kind regards,


Anonymous said...

As always Steve, you have a way of hitting home. I am so glad that I am part of your life support network, and am pleased to share your site with my readers. All the best, Loren (

Anne said...

Thanks Steve, i imagine that every situation is an opportunity to come up with an inspiration story.